Friday, May 30, 2008
I miss my cousins...
It started when i met my husband and when we had a serious relationship before which lead us into marriage..that time my cousins whom i treated them as my sisters they against about it and they tell me that they dont like my husband..When they said that to me it hurt me so much but i never make any comment about it because everyone had a different opinion. Still i didnt listen to them in fact i just ignore what they said to me.. that time i felt like when im not with them they talked about me behind my back..I really knew that they gonna do that i mean stab me behind my back since i met my husband but still i follow what my hearts say eventhough i know that this decissions i had wont make my cousins happy. i dont really know why they are like to me they should be happy with me but they are not..until one day we all having an arguement because of silly things and they make it big deal...so now we are not friends anymore they said that they will forgot me...I just dont want to remember everthing they did to me but i miss them so much..I forgot and forgive them already its been 2 years...They still not forget about it and they are not willing to leave the past behind and they still choose to be like this..Everytime i looked on our pictures we all had it keeps me miss them so badly.. They are not just my cousins they also my sisters and bestfriends.I miss the time we went together in mall do some shopping and something im the one who treat them food or even buy them cloths, going to beach resort, out of town and especially going to disco late at night eventhough we are not allow to do that cuz our parents will get shitty about it...Those good memories i still kepp it in my heart until i die. Thier been part of my life and i learned a lot of things because of them...They always there for me but then now I dont know what to say...when i wrote this it makes me cry..My husband and my family knows how important my cousin are to me..I never think that we would be like this and i said to myself this is life take it or leave it..For now im just hoping one day we will be friends again...
Monday, May 26, 2008
Little Ways To Say I Love You
Showing your affection and emotion can be a simple and effortless act when you incorporate these little ways to say, "I love you!"
1. Kiss the inside of your partner's hand
2. Leave a love note for your partner to find.
3. Blow a kiss.
4. Mark designated "Loving Days" on your calendar.
5. Arrange for take-out and have an indoor picnic.
6. Feed each other.
7. Wash your partner's car and leave post-it notes with loving messages for them to find.
8. Frame a favorite picture of the two of you and place it next to your bed.
9. Share a bottle of wine or champagne.
10. Send loving messages on your partner's pager or cell phone.
11. Leave a romantic message on your partner's answering machine.
12. Slow dance.
13. Hold hands.
14. Go star-gazing together.
15. Dedicate a love song on the radio.
16. Cook a meal together.
17. Watch T.V. together in the glow of candlelight.
18. Meet your partner for lunch.
19. Plan a surprise date.
20. Kiss passionately... often.
WOW PHILIPPINES..
this video and the song reminds me of my beautiful home sweet home, everytime i heard and watch this video i felt like im gonna jump to philippines...i miss my family so much, friends, my room, my house, food ( especially jollibee hehehe ), beaches, jeepney, the air, the warm weather everything...i miss it so bad..i get jealous with one of my friends going back to philippines having thier vacation eventhough its not that long that i was there but still i miss it so much now...but i know im gonna come there again even im gonna spend a month im still happy about...
anywhere i go, anypeople i meet but there's no one like PHILIPPINES....damn i miss it so bad!!!
Friends...Friends..Friends...
I got this tag from Theresa..thank you so much!!!
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3. Tag other online friends you know.You don’t need to be tag in order to join. If you want to join just post this one in your blog.
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4. Let me know your blog’s name and url by leaving me a comment HERE. I will add you to the master list.That way, everyone is happy and can meet new friends too!
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1. Me and Mine 2.Creative In Me 3.Little Peanut 4. Pea in a Pod 5. Sugar Magnolias 6.Because Life Is Fun 7. Piece o’Kaje 8. Mon a Bric 9. Celebrate Life 10.My Journey11. Deeply In Love 12. Pink and Brown Diaries 13. Happyheart 14. Wilstop 15. FunFierceFab 16. Nita’s Random Thoughts 17. Nita’s Corner 18. Thomas Web Links 19. Thomas Travel Tales 20. Make Money Online 21. Great Finds and Deals 22. PRC Board Exam Results 24. My Wandering Thoughts 25. Nita’s Ramblings 26. Just Me.. Eds 27. Etc Atbp 28. When Silence Speaks 29. Juliana’s Lair 30. Juliana’s World 31. Juliana’s Library 32. Blessed Chic 33. Can of Thoughts 34. Hailey’s Domain 35. Hailey’s Beats and Bits 36. ISL family 37. Arbitrary Thoughts 38. D’ Cooking Mudra 39. My Big Picture 40. Dancing in Midlife Tune 41. Blessings In Life 42. My Colorful World 43. Dare to Blog 44. Life Realities 45. WebGeek Journal DotNet 46. WebGeek Journal 47. Let’s Travel Philippines 49. MY DAILY THOUGHTS AND MOODS 50. A Sweet Taste Of Life 51. My Life in this Wonderful World! 52. Denz Techtronics 53. Denz Recreational 54. Surviving Deplyoment 55. Ester’s Raptured Dreams 56. Nipa Hut 57.Picture Clusters 58. My Wanderings 59.Maiylah’s Snippets 60. EuLehKulit 61. Life Quest 61.Being a wife. Being a Mom. 62. MoMie SPace 63.Woman Xplore 64. PinayWAHM 65. My Prerogative 66. The Journey of mA lIFE 67. YOUR BLOG HERE
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Dog is a man best friend...
ohhh God, my hubby love our dog so much and i think he love the dog more than me..hahaha hmmmmm well that he's second best mate and of course im the first one..'on that picture seems like he's very comfortable sleeping with our dog...sometimes i get jealous with it...i'm funny is it??? anyway i cant do anything about it if your partner is a pet lover and i consider myself as pet lover as well....i bought that dog just for him cuz i know how he wanted to have one cuz before on his past relationship his x is selfish..hubby and i was lucky to have a pet like toby he's very nature dog and very smart...thats it!!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
what is love???
all of us had different comment nor idea about that question either me...For me love is not only about giving, fighting and receiving, I think it is also about letting go. I also think that giving up on someone you love doesn't mean you are a loser, quitter and that your feeling aren't worth it or are weak. For me if you really love someone and you want that person to be happy but he/she can't find her/his happiness with you and that they love someone else and that person loves them back, well you must let him/her go.. Not because you are a loser but because you want that person to be happy. If you like someone but can't let that person be happy with whom they really love or like then it is not worth it calling love and is not worth fighting for because if you really love that person I'm sure you want them to be really happy and you want the very best of life to him/she ..But if the one you love doesn't love you back never ever date his/her friends just so you can get close to them or don't try to find someone that looks like them cause you might end up hurting them..Just teach yourself how to let go of someone that you used to love and i know its not that easy to do..I know it hurt your feeling but you cant force him/she to love you back..Just think that the person you love is not the right one for you and im sure one day you will find him/she....
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
7 Secrets of a Successful Marriage
1. Be each other's support system.
You go through many things in a lifetime. It helps to know there is someone to help you shoulder the hard times. When your partner comes to you or needs an encouraging word, give it to them. Your vote of confidence can do wonders for your partner and in turn better your relationship.
2. Be able to compromise.
By now we should all agree that people can't always have their own way. Applying the art of compromise is a healthy solution to settling a disagreement. Be willing to look for new avenues for exchange in order to make things feel fair to your partner. You might try a back rub in exchange for dish washing duty or quiet time together in exchange for a guy's night out. Compromising can help you turn your differences into new ways to discover each other.
3. Express your love in a variety of ways.
Don't just say it; show it. Don't just show it; say it. In other words, find more than one way to express your affection for your partner. Variety is the spice that keeps a marriage together. Leave a love note under your partner's pillow. Write "I love you" in lipstick on the mirror. Hide a rose on your partner's car seat. Stop and give your partner a very unexpected weak-in-the-knees kiss. Mail a hand-written love letter. Avoid falling into a boredom rut by continually striving to try and do new things together.
4. Respect each other's individuality.
Encourage your partner to participate in individual interests they may have. In fact, take that encouragement a step further and occasionally join your partner in their favorite past time. You'll be showing your partner that you not only understand who they are, but that you love them exactly how they are as well.
5. Always leave on good terms.
Life is unexpected. No argument is worth parting ways while upset with each other. If you can keep this in mind, it will go a long way to helping you put certain aspects of your relationship in perspective. Learn to value your relationship enough to never let things get that out of hand.
6. Be kind and considerate to each other.
This may seem like a given, but how many times have you snapped at your partner under stress, or made an unnecessary remark? Words and the tone in which they're used leave a lasting imprint. You can use this to make your couple memories something you will happily look back upon…or not. Long-term married couples make kindness and respect toward their partner a crucial part of their daily lives.
7. Exploit each other strengths, not weaknesses.
Think of yourselves as a team. Together you are going to try and accomplish many things from buying a house, bettering your careers, raising children and more. If you spend your time nit-picking each other about what you're doing wrong, you're wasting valuable effort that could be put towards making your dreams come true. If you were to encourage a group of employees, you wouldn't tell them how horrible they are doing. You would start with positive, motivating statements. Learn to incorporate this towards each other. Find where each other's strengths are and use them to your ability. One of you may be a more sales type personality, the other the organizer. Find out where you fit and how you can use those traits to better your team of husband and wife.
You go through many things in a lifetime. It helps to know there is someone to help you shoulder the hard times. When your partner comes to you or needs an encouraging word, give it to them. Your vote of confidence can do wonders for your partner and in turn better your relationship.
2. Be able to compromise.
By now we should all agree that people can't always have their own way. Applying the art of compromise is a healthy solution to settling a disagreement. Be willing to look for new avenues for exchange in order to make things feel fair to your partner. You might try a back rub in exchange for dish washing duty or quiet time together in exchange for a guy's night out. Compromising can help you turn your differences into new ways to discover each other.
3. Express your love in a variety of ways.
Don't just say it; show it. Don't just show it; say it. In other words, find more than one way to express your affection for your partner. Variety is the spice that keeps a marriage together. Leave a love note under your partner's pillow. Write "I love you" in lipstick on the mirror. Hide a rose on your partner's car seat. Stop and give your partner a very unexpected weak-in-the-knees kiss. Mail a hand-written love letter. Avoid falling into a boredom rut by continually striving to try and do new things together.
4. Respect each other's individuality.
Encourage your partner to participate in individual interests they may have. In fact, take that encouragement a step further and occasionally join your partner in their favorite past time. You'll be showing your partner that you not only understand who they are, but that you love them exactly how they are as well.
5. Always leave on good terms.
Life is unexpected. No argument is worth parting ways while upset with each other. If you can keep this in mind, it will go a long way to helping you put certain aspects of your relationship in perspective. Learn to value your relationship enough to never let things get that out of hand.
6. Be kind and considerate to each other.
This may seem like a given, but how many times have you snapped at your partner under stress, or made an unnecessary remark? Words and the tone in which they're used leave a lasting imprint. You can use this to make your couple memories something you will happily look back upon…or not. Long-term married couples make kindness and respect toward their partner a crucial part of their daily lives.
7. Exploit each other strengths, not weaknesses.
Think of yourselves as a team. Together you are going to try and accomplish many things from buying a house, bettering your careers, raising children and more. If you spend your time nit-picking each other about what you're doing wrong, you're wasting valuable effort that could be put towards making your dreams come true. If you were to encourage a group of employees, you wouldn't tell them how horrible they are doing. You would start with positive, motivating statements. Learn to incorporate this towards each other. Find where each other's strengths are and use them to your ability. One of you may be a more sales type personality, the other the organizer. Find out where you fit and how you can use those traits to better your team of husband and wife.
I hate cold!!!
Ohhh gosh..i think winter is finally here...i dont really like it..its so freaking cold eventhough we didnt get snow here but still its freezing..i dont know what it looks like if ever one day its gets snow in city...hmmm i think i wont ever go out..i turn the heater on inside the house but still i felt cold...its a boring weather hmmmm and i always get cold and flu not just that one headache too..huhuhuhu i miss the weather in philippines so much eventhough its hot but then i get used to it..i grow up with it..its really huge different here in australia and back home..right now im just stay inside of the house i dont even go out and check the mail box outside cuz it so cold...FREAKING COLD....when it gets hot here in australia it would be boiling hot..hotter than in philippines..heehehe sometimes it reach 42 degrees thats only on summertime...but now its winter so its very, very cold...
LOL...
i just laugh when i think about what i did to my husband last night...i acting that i get annoyed with him..and i never talked to him or even i never get close to him i just ignore him at all..but the truth is im just having fun, i just wanna see his serious face cuz i think its funny..i never used to see him very serious cuz his a type of person always had a smile on his face so then when he gets mad ohhh dear very funny...but then he cant say anything to me than im just moody beatch and his under my thumb when i get annoyed...im trying not to talk to him last night and he doesnt even talk to me cuz he knows that i would just ignored him...hehehe but a couple of hours im just give him a big hug and then he said..."would you be nice to me now" hehehe i just laugh!!!
my pet!!!
i love my toby his 100% jack russel, his so so smart and good dog..ma hubby love him so much as much as i do..eventhough i dont like putting him inside of the house cuz he make a lot mess inside although he doesnt pee or having shit inside anymore we taught him already...he loves to play ball all the time, when we're together he always want to play like a kid..very energetic dog and we both happy to have him as our pet....he looks like our baby ahehehe for now cuz we dont have kids yet...maybe one day!!!
what a day!!
i get up in bed really late today...I'm being pretty lazy..ahehehe i don't know why i am like this but not all the time though..its just like you feel like you don't want to do something, you just want to sit back and relax or take a good nap...ahehehe i supposed to take a shower as soon as i get up in bed but then i stock up in the mirror..just doing something on ma hair..hahaha i spent a couple of minutes of doing on that...and after I've finished i go back to bed and just lying down...thinking about ma family back home....and how i wish i was there in Philippines enjoying the sun than here pretty cold...i hate it!!! its winter already i cant stop it!!! well that's all for now...
Monday, May 19, 2008
Life is a lot of challenge!!
Since then, I met a person whom that could change my life, my husband and I am so lucky to have him. God knows everything on me; He knows that it’s really my dream to have a foreign husband since I was kid. It’s not like that I don’t like Filipino guys maybe because I’m scared that I would be like my sister and cousin that if ever i could marry a Filipino person who’s irresponsible and hurt me physically I’m to scared about that things. But I know not all Filipinos were like that, not all of them. Everything was changed my life was changed, my family was changed and I so blessed about it. God grant all my dream and He do loved so much. I know this is the plan that He had for me and I know as well that is not yet finished. Here I am again I face a challenge to my life a challenge that I’m hoping that after this I would be mature enough and strong enough.
It’s started that I argue with somebody here that I never think that it would be happen like this. And I’ve never think that she do that to me after all the good friendship I’ve given to her and now she do a silly things that I don’t really like it. When we started argue each other she says a lot of things that ever made me felt pain into my heart. I felt like why she do this to me and why do I deserved this. I want a normal life not like this. I felt like is not their life, this is my life I live my life how I like it as long as I’ m happy and that’s important.
I just felt like I’m too good for them and I always make them laugh for all the stupid joke I ever had and that’s what they pay me back. I just love friend who stay true behind my back than friends who only stay true behind my face. They take advantage my weaknesses they really did maybe because I am not mature enough and I need to learn more about what life is. But they don’t have right to tell me what to do and not to do. I don’t ever give them a right to do that to me. That time I was very sad, I felt so alone and I felt I don’t have dignity. I just sat down cry and cry and screaming. I just don’t like to
eat and its seems I don’t really like to go out. I’m said to myself I need to changed and I’m so lucky to have a husband who I cant talked with even though I’m not that type of person who could open up everything what my feeling and etc. I think I need to open up my self a bit more because when I keep inside of myself I’m the one would going to suffer in the end. I felt like I don’t deserve to have a good life. Maybe its my fault as well because I believe straight away what people say around me without asking to that person if its true and stuff like that or maybe because I don’t know how control myself enough. This thing was happen to me before about my cousins whom I treated them as my sisters. She reminds me what my cousins did to me before that’s why I am so upset and annoyed.
Now I’ve learned and trying to changed myself a bit more. And I don’t let anyone could ever do they same thing again and if ever I heard some silly stories I let myself just to ignore them and never make a comment about it. I think that’s the best way to do and I will just enjoy my life what I had now even though they don’t like it. Its alright this is not their life, its mine. I have a wonderful husband and very supportive. He always there for me through thick and thin. Who always there to give me a good advice and teach me things that i need to learn I am so happy very happy of what I have now and I’m very satisfy what God has given to me. I’ve thank God because He never leave me and He always there to help me. He did made me strong and God knows who I am..
I live my life to the fullest and I am ready to face whatever challenge that will over come. I don’t have to worry about it anymore I just need to be strong. One thing is forgive and forget it makes us a better person everyday. I just enjoyed my life and I don’t care those who don’t!!!
It’s started that I argue with somebody here that I never think that it would be happen like this. And I’ve never think that she do that to me after all the good friendship I’ve given to her and now she do a silly things that I don’t really like it. When we started argue each other she says a lot of things that ever made me felt pain into my heart. I felt like why she do this to me and why do I deserved this. I want a normal life not like this. I felt like is not their life, this is my life I live my life how I like it as long as I’ m happy and that’s important.
I just felt like I’m too good for them and I always make them laugh for all the stupid joke I ever had and that’s what they pay me back. I just love friend who stay true behind my back than friends who only stay true behind my face. They take advantage my weaknesses they really did maybe because I am not mature enough and I need to learn more about what life is. But they don’t have right to tell me what to do and not to do. I don’t ever give them a right to do that to me. That time I was very sad, I felt so alone and I felt I don’t have dignity. I just sat down cry and cry and screaming. I just don’t like to
eat and its seems I don’t really like to go out. I’m said to myself I need to changed and I’m so lucky to have a husband who I cant talked with even though I’m not that type of person who could open up everything what my feeling and etc. I think I need to open up my self a bit more because when I keep inside of myself I’m the one would going to suffer in the end. I felt like I don’t deserve to have a good life. Maybe its my fault as well because I believe straight away what people say around me without asking to that person if its true and stuff like that or maybe because I don’t know how control myself enough. This thing was happen to me before about my cousins whom I treated them as my sisters. She reminds me what my cousins did to me before that’s why I am so upset and annoyed.
Now I’ve learned and trying to changed myself a bit more. And I don’t let anyone could ever do they same thing again and if ever I heard some silly stories I let myself just to ignore them and never make a comment about it. I think that’s the best way to do and I will just enjoy my life what I had now even though they don’t like it. Its alright this is not their life, its mine. I have a wonderful husband and very supportive. He always there for me through thick and thin. Who always there to give me a good advice and teach me things that i need to learn I am so happy very happy of what I have now and I’m very satisfy what God has given to me. I’ve thank God because He never leave me and He always there to help me. He did made me strong and God knows who I am..
I live my life to the fullest and I am ready to face whatever challenge that will over come. I don’t have to worry about it anymore I just need to be strong. One thing is forgive and forget it makes us a better person everyday. I just enjoyed my life and I don’t care those who don’t!!!
Marie
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